Ask A man 22 May '24: 'We keep hurting each other'

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for the last 7 years and they live close to each other. Anonymous says over the years they have had their issues and they have hurt each other in various ways and they’ve both acknowledged these. Anonymous says she’s frustrated by her partner who always accuses her of not having regard for him, something she feels like he’s exaggerating. Anonymous shares an example of him doing this by getting upset at her for not giving him attention even when she’s really busy. Anonymous says this keeps happening despite the fact that they are generally always in communication and it’s draining her.