Communication Is a Double-Edged Sword in Conflict

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Have you heard the saying, "A word can start a war, but a conversation can bring peace"? 

We adore this saying because it encapsulates a universal truth about the power of communication in both escalating and resolving conflicts. Communication is basically a double-edged sword; it can both spark conflict and yet serve as a means to resolve it. 

Understanding this duality is crucial in effectively managing and resolving conflicts.  So today, we are highlighting how communication can act as both a source of conflict as well as a vehicle for conflict resolution.

Misunderstandings, poor communication skills, assumptions, emotional triggers, and non-verbal cues can all ignite or exacerbate conflicts. Conversely, clear communication, active listening, constructive feedback, collaborative problem-solving, trust-building, and emotional regulation can effectively resolve conflicts. Understanding and navigating this duality is crucial for anyone seeking a more peaceful approach to any conflict they face.

We can help our clients develop more effective communications skills  utilizing techniques such as EAR statements, BIFF responses, and Yes/And... strategies. Check out these past episodes for more on these tools:

Fighting Words - 13 Tips to Keep Divorce Conflict From Going Off the Rails
Magic Words in Mediation - Negotiation Language That Works

In any conflict, we have a choice to use communication to ramp things up or cool them down. Choose wisely.

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