Ep 80: Normalising 'clunky' sex in long term relationships

Ever felt clumsy in bed? You’re not alone.

Join Meg and Jacob O’Neill as they dive into the messy, beautiful reality of long-term relationships and intimacy. They explore how those awkward, clunky sex moments are completely normal and can actually lead to a deeper connection.

In this episode, they talk openly about their struggles, desires, and how personal growth in sex can bring you closer. They emphasize the importance of quality time together, reflecting on a day filled with connection, exploring each other’s bodies during pregnancy, and the impact of small, meaningful moments.

Meg and Jacob also tackle the tough stuff: frustration, hurt feelings, and finding ways to reconnect. They share how staying curious, addressing emotions, and embracing the messiness of intimacy can transform your relationship.

They also riff off on:

• How much Jacob and Meg loves high quality food -- and Buchi Kombucha
• Meg shares personal stories of clunky sex experiences in long term relationships.
• Meg and Jacob encounters a clunky moment during sex leading to an open conversation after
• Meg and Jacob shares juicy details about trying 69, with Meg preferring deep receptivity and Jacob liking the intertwined mess of giving and receiving.
• Meg emphasizes the importance of investing time and energy into improving one's sex life, rather than accepting it as static and unchanging.
• Honoring clunky sex moments can lead to more animalistic, wild quickies for women.
• Jacob and Meg discusses surface-level vs. deep pleasure in sex and masturbation.

and many more.

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