You Have Nothing to Prove!

Hello! Today’s episode was inspired by a few little happenings in my life recently, where I have found myself trying to explain/justify/please others - before myself, in the hope that others understand my reasoning behind why I do what I do in certain situations. What I’ve learnt recently, is that as humans, we waste SO much time and precious energy trying to prove ourselves to others - in the hope that others will perceive us as right, kind, successful etc.

Not only are we wasting energy in these moments, we are not honouring who we are. We aren’t feeling worthy of our decisions, and we are giving power away to others in the hope to get approval or validation. In turn, the energy we adapt during these times is the energy we get back, because what we project is a reflection of what we are feeling inside. This is why you can be working so hard on manifesting a certain thing, person, experience or outcome - and find yourself meeting block after block.

I open up about a few personal experiences where I have felt the exhausting need to prove myself where it really wasn’t necessary. I found I was manifesting more negativity into my life by constantly talking about how ‘tired I was’ and how I was ‘struggling to keep up.’ My intention was to prove to others why I was a different version of myself and share my excuses as to why I was late with replies, or cancelling catch ups for validation. However what I was really doing was manifesting more of that negativity into my life, by constantly talking about it. If I felt worthy in those moments, I wouldn’t have felt the need to justify and prove myself to others in the first place!

Here is the link the my episode on accountability! It’s Me, Hi, I'm the Problem, It’s Me.

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