Ask A Man 12 Aug '24: 'Should I stay in my toxic relationship?'

Anonymous says he met his current partner, lady no.2, in 2021 while he was dating lady no.1 whom he had impregnated but their relationship was tanking because he felt disrespected by lady no.1 who eventually started dating someone else. 

Anonymous says problems started happening in his relationship with lady no.2 because she had STIs and it was left unexplained where they were coming from. Anonymous says he eventually went through her phone and found dodgy messages between his partner and other guys. 

Anonymous says they took a break from having sex because of all of this and during that he started having a sexual affair with someone else on the side, his partner found out, but they dealt with it and continued with their relationship. 

Anonymous says he has since found other texts between her and another guy, he adds that he’s currently going through a loss and she’s not even there for her. Anonymous says this situation reminds him of his previous relationship and he’s not sure if he should move on.