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Education:Self-Improvement
My husband is the worst...😣
Ever been in one of those mommy groups and someone dives down the husband hating rabbit hole? 🙋🏼♀️ It takes one vent to start the “my husband is worse than yours!” tumble to oblivion. And it has to stop.
It’s not a badge of honor. It’s nooooooot something to brag about. And, really, when you dive down that rabbit hole what are you looking for? Other husband haters to surround yourself with? That doesn’t benefit you AT ALL. I promise.
The more I examine the success rate of my clients the more I see the correlation between an all-in partnership. Moms- you cannot run, clean, AND steer the ship by yourself.
Here are some tips for forming an all-in partnership with your spouse:
☀️Ask. Ask him to help you. Begrudgingly picking up, doing dishes, folding laundry and rage cleaning... doesn’t serve either of you and only builds resentment.
☀️When he does it imperfectly- let it go. Done is better than perfect.
☀️Understand it’ll take time. He won’t remember to unload the dishwasher right away- keep asking. For the love of God don’t “just do it” because it’s “easier”. Keep going. Keep asking.
☀️Help him understand WHY you want and need these help with things. If you haven’t heard of 🧹🧺🧼chore-play... look it up. Then tell him about it. 😉
If we are really honest with ourselves- we’re a bit to blame in this “I’ll do it all” mentality. 😣 Harsh truth, #sorrynotsorry. I trust your spouse loves you, wants you to be happy but may have fallen in to patterns that you’ve both given in to. Time to break those patterns, mamas!
You really have ✌🏻 choices- continue to do all the things but choose a better attitude about it OR ask for help and let it be done imperfectly. What will you choose?
This won’t happen overnight, but it will be worth it. Drop the ball, ask for help picking it up. An all-in partnership is KEY to your happiness, the happiness of your marriage and your success in life.♥️
Do you want help getting to this all-in partnership with your husband? Then The Mom Strong Method is for you. We work on YOU first and then help you create an all-in partnership that supports your goals, your family, your life. Drop a “I want all-in!” below 👇🏻and I’ll message you with some information!
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