ERP 194: How to Alchemize your Triggers into Insight – an Interview with Tobin Zivon

About Tobin Zivon: Tobin Zivon has been a love, intimacy and sacred sexuality coach for over two and a half decades.  

  

The author of The Art of Mindful Living, Tobin helps groups, couples and individuals blossom to their highest potential. His brilliance shines most brightly when working with men, women and couples in the realms of love, intimacy and sacred sexuality.  Tobin has been lovingly nicknamed the “couples whisperer” and has worked with thousands of individuals and couples to break through to a new, more fulfilling and connected love life.  

  

(Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories and examples.) 

  

In this episode, Tobin Zivon and Dr. Jessica Higgins discuss: 

How to unlock repetitive frustration patterns and power struggles in relationships.  Why and how frustrating patterns start in the first place.  The “divine design” present in 99% of relationships.  Optimizing love and the two-step dance of embodying our true potential in the areas of love and intimacy.  Being armed with the skillful means and tools to get at the root of ourselves and our relationships is the second step.  The traumas and imprints within each of us and learning to live with and through them.   Common frustrations of the masculine and feminine and how they play into each other.  The surprising keys for dissolving power struggles (and what keeps them in place).  

  

"If you have the capacity to, first and foremost, meet that [heat] with loving awareness – a willingness to feel - we are starting to drive a wedge into it in that moment. Any moment, any millisecond, that we are feeling, as opposed to letting it run the show or stuffing it down and pretending it doesn’t exist, then we are actually doing that alchemy; we are actually healing a part of our being that was imprinted from before this person who’s in front of us." —  Tobin Zivon 

  

Mentioned:  

Facebook: Tobin Zivon 

Website: TobinZivon.com & Relationship-Mastery-Secrets.com 

Instagram: @tobinzivon   

Book: The Art of Mindful Living 

Book Reference: A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose – Eckhart Tolle 

  

Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins:  

Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship 

Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins 

Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts 

Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation 

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins 

Twitter: @DrJessHiggins 

Website: drjessicahiggins.com  

Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com  

  

If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here. 

  

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If you are interested in developing new skills to overcome relationship challenges, please consider taking the Connected Couple Program or engaging in relationship coaching work with me.