Oslo, Norway
Recorded: 27 January 2018
Uploaded: 15 February 2018
Released: 15 February 2018
Twitter: https://twitter.com/magnabosco
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Website: www.anthonymagnabosco.com
Watch video of this talk here (blue slides): tinyurl.com/SE-OSLO-BLUE
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Music by Chet Hovatter.
Reid & Tia: tinyurl.com/SE-OSLO-TIA
Kiana: tinyurl.com/SE-OSLO-KIANA
Derek: tinyurl.com/SE-OSLO-DEREK
Tutorials: tinyurl.com/SE-OSLO-TUTORIALS
Elderly: tinyurl.com/SE-OSLO-ELDERLY
Madison: tinyurl.com/SE-OSLO-MADISON
Aron Ra: tinyurl.com/SE-OSLO-ARON
Jenny & Anthony: tinyurl.com/SE-OSLO-MORMONS
'How to Stay Calm...': tinyurl.com/SE-OSLO-STAYCALM
Jennifer Smith: tinyurl.com/SE-OSLO-JENNIFER
RESOURCES
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SE Website: http://tinyurl.com/SE-AM-WEBSITE
INTRODUCTION
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Lovely Meeting You
Eldorado Bookstore
gofundme Donors
Wonderful Secret
Emotional Interactions
No Popes
1,000 Chats
OVERVIEW OF SE
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Many Epistemologies
Street Optional
Questioning Telling
Socratic Method
Peel Back
Science-Minded
Motivational Interviewing
Increasing Speed
Drop Facts
Resist Evidence
Questions Rule
Encourage Reflection
Pebble Placement
What-Why-How
VIDEO EXAMPLE
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Kiana Karma
On-Screen Mechanics
All Claims
Body Language
Honest Contemplation
ASSUMPTIONS WE MAKE
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Triage Time
Look for Clues
Acknowledge Fallibility
Express Humility
Confident Arrogance
Reaction to Uncertainty
Capable of Empathy
Improved Interactions
Rejects Relativism
Values Truth
OTF Falters
Understands Dictionaries
Holy Dictates
Book Report
Baby Names
Entertains Hypotheticals
They're Commonplace
Be Realistic
Aims for Honesty
Model Honesty
Share a Story
ELEMENTS OF AN EFFECTIVE CHAT
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Considered Numbering
Not Linear
Half-Decade
Assess Your Goals
Expect Variation
Frustrates Critics
Hammer Time
Prepare Beforehand
Atheos App
Tutorial Videos
AMFCA Book
Audio Podcast
Study Guide
Facebook Groups
Assess Venue
Finding Interlocutors
Indoors Acceptable
Traffic Flow
Safety Considerations
Minimize Disruptions
Assess Interlocutor
Age Considerations
Displayed Demeanor
Selection Bias
Meet Them Where They're At
Disclose Objectives
Obtain Consent
Revisit Agreement
Attitude Check
Consider Revision
Acknowledge Your Bias
Share Position
Build Rapport
True Stories
Useful Anecdotes
Listen Intently
Repeat Back
Demonstrate Attentiveness
Form Great Questions
Identify Claim
What-Type Questions
Clarify Terms
Use Their Definitions
Suitcase Words
Unpack Together
Calibrate Confidence
Not Just Numerical
Psychotherapy Origins
Identify Justifications
Why-Type Questions
Real Reasons
Isolate Foundation
Obtain Buy-In
Select Selection
Observe Response
Revisit Confidence
End Friendly
RECOVERY
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Be Accessible
Avoid Whiplash
Allow Time
Offer Support
Recovering from Religion: recoveringfromreligion.org
Emerging Faith: emergingfaithhelpf@gmail.com
Other Resources
Meet Your Obligation
Take Notes
Follow Up
Decompression Plan
Share Experience
Facebook Groups
Reddit Post
Tweet Something
AUDIENCE QUESTIONS
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CONTACT ME
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anthonymagnabosco.com
Mistakes:
I should have said that we raised "nearly" (instead of "more than") US $5k from the gofundme. Our original goal was US $4k, and at the time of this video upload, we raised US $4,744.
Please let me know if you notice any mistakes so that I can address them here for self-improvement.
TECHNICAL
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Video captured using Canon XH-A1 and Go-Pro
Video edited using PowerDirector
The views addressed here are mine and mine alone, and are not necessarily shared by members of my family and friends.
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