Making Sex Positive Events Happen (Jazz Goldman)

Jazz Goldman and I talk about organizing sex positive and sex-on-premises events. We talk about our love of these events and why we volunteer to do that work. We share our experiences in sex communities including the burner scene. I do use the word “literally” in this episode to mean “figuratively” which is now definitively one of the definitions of the word literally - don’t hate me for using modern English. I don’t like that the word has come to mean what it means, but I’m rolling with the punches.

We also talk about the experience of organizing as mixed-race people of colour.

1. What’s the difference between sex-on-premises and sex-positive in event organizing?
   
2. What was going to your first sex event like?
   
3. What do you like most about sex events?
   
4. What kinds of sex-on-premises events exist in various cities you’ve been in?
   
5. How does your experience as a non-binary femme affect your experience at sex-on-premises events?
   
6. How does your experience as a Black person affect your experience at sex-on-premises events?
   
7. What are common misconceptions of attendees who want to come to a sex positive event?
   
8. What’s your experience with hosting events like these?
   
9. What are some common misconceptions about trying to host sex positive events?
   
10. What are some challenges to creating welcoming group sex environments? (shifts in relationship status, location, “aging out” ie: growing out of it, etc.)