When We Don’t Love Ourselves, God Still Does: Mike Weaver and James Merritt

We all struggle with insecurities and feeling like we aren’t enough. But we serve a God who loves us regardless of how much we love ourselves. And He can still use us, even when we don’t feel equipped. Mike Weaver, lead singer of the Dove-Award winning group Big Daddy Weave, lived much of his life from a place of low self-esteem, always comparing himself to others and wishing he looked different. But he had a special and unexpected moment with God when he realized that God doesn’t just love him—He likes him, too. That realization helped Mike begin to appreciate himself and his own special gifts, refreshing his perspective and perception of God. Dr. James Merritt, pastor of Cross Pointe Church in Atlanta, knows that more than anything, our character counts, even more than what others might think about us. He shares how we can cultivate strong character, and why standing for what we believe in holds a greater reward than getting approval from someone else.

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Jesus Calling Podcast

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Parable.com

Past interview: Chelsea Crockett

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Mike Weaver

I Am Redeemed book by Mike Weaver

Big Daddy Weave

“Redeemed” song

University of Mobile

Jeremy Redmon

COVID-19

James 4:8, Jeremiah 29:12 

 

Dr. James Merritt

Character Still Counts book by Dr. James Merritt

Cross Pointe Church

Touching Lives

Dwight L. Moody

Billy Graham

 

Interview Quotes:

“I just never felt like I belonged in front of people. However, worship would give me an opportunity to disappear and still do what I love.” - Mike Weaver

“The way I thought other people were accepting me is how I was able to accept me. The way I thought other people were liking me is how I gave myself permission to like me.” - Mike Weaver

"I was telling God this long list of things that I hated about myself, and then that still, small voice of the Holy Spirit interrupted: 'Michael, why don't you let Me tell you what I think about you for once?'" – Mike Weaver

“Jesus came in and He bailed me out again. He did it again. He broke through for me. And He always is the hero of my story. And so I was just like, ‘God, how amazing that You can bring this [song] out of self-hatred. That's how great of a Redeemer You are.’” - Mike Weaver, on the success of his song, “Redeemed”

“We have experienced Him in such incredible ways in that place of need, realizing, Jesus, we need You.” - Mike Weaver

“When God looks at us, He's not looking at our mistakes. He is looking at what Jesus has done on our behalf and our identity. Our entire identity is rooted not in our imperfection, but the perfection of Jesus Christ applied to our life.” - Mike Weaver

“At the end of the day, at the end of your life, character is everything.” - James Merritt

“Character is not taught, it's caught. And the best teachers of character are parents.” - James Merritt

“I think it all begins with saying, ‘You know what? Character is more important to me than my reputation. It really is the essence of who I am.’” - James Merritt

“At the end of your life, it really won't matter what anybody thought about you. The only thing that will matter is what God knew about you.” - James Merritt

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