139. The ONE Thing that holding you back

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I know you feel frustrated. You feel like you sound like everyone else. 

 

 You don't fit in because what works for "everyone" doesn't seem to work for you. 

 

You fear deep down that you are just copying others that you learn from. 

 

You aren't confident in the tools you have to give your clients massive transformation.

 

You have tried lots of times and lots of different things but no matter what you always end up back here - nothing seems to stick.

 

You WANT the weight loss, the business success, the income, the clients....but you can't seem to show up for your wants. 

 

And you wonder:  will I always be like this?  Can I even hope for something different?

Is something wrong with me? 

 

Love, I have been there. I get how you feel. 

 

And there is NOTHING wrong with you.

 

You aren't broken, you aren't hopeless, you aren't a bad coach.  You are just operating out of alignment.

 

Let me explain:

 

Right now you are in constant start/stop mode because you are at war with yourself:  you can feel that what you have been taught or shown doesn't FEEL good to you but you don't know what else to do.  You have been told that's the "way to get results" right? 

So you try to force yourself to do it but because it doesn't feel good you don't and then you end up beating yourself up like something is wrong with you. 

 

When, in fact, there is nothing wrong with you.  Your intuition is speaking and you are ignoring her out of fear that she's wrong. 

 

Over the span of your life you have taken on many, many beliefs.  Aka thoughts that go something like this:

"You have to work hard to make money"

"You have to sell X way to make sales"

"You have to overcome objections"
"You have to fit in or you're weird"

"You don't know what you're talking about"

"You aren't smart"

"You have to hustle for what you want"

"You're big boned - you won't ever look like those girls"

"You can't charge that much"

"You can't ask for that"

"They would never pick you"

 

I'm sure you could add a lot more to the list.

 

When you have a belief, your brain will always work to prove it right - even ones you don't like. 

 

So, your brain will find a way to show up and sabotage you anytime that you begin to take action that would disprove these beliefs. 

Whether that's in your health, relationships, business - ALL of it. 

 

When others tell you to just "work harder" or that you need more "discipline", it doesn't work because you cannot outwork your subconscious beliefs.

No matter how much you want to.

 

So what can you do?

 

3 Things:

1.  Identify the hidden beliefs/agreements that are showing up holding you hostage.

 

2.  Address the pain and healing that is needed (we often take on beliefs out of painful circumstances that wounded us - healing is needed there for true transformation to take place)

 

3.  Reframe and build in new beliefs that support the action you want to take. 

 

Sounds simple. And the concept for sure is.  But we have had years of living and thinking the ways that we have.  So this work is a process that requires intention, space and committment. 

 

That's why I created Building Beliefs That Serve:  A 6 week group coaching program designed to help you identify the core beliefs that are holding you back, begin your healing process AND start building in replacement beliefs that will free you to show up the way that you truly desire to. 

 

In this course you will get:

 

1.  My exact 6 step process to walk you through this on printable sheets so that this can become a daily practice for you.

 

2.  3 live trainings and 3 coaching calls with me and the group plus 3 BONUS trainings from me on Feminine energy for your business:  Branding, Selling + Developing unique offers that sell. (9+ hours of content for you)

 

3. 6 weeks of accountability to work on the root issue and produce new action.  You will come out of this course with new beliefs and new action to support those beliefs.

 

4.  Support in the group, from the group, my team and I. 

 

5.  Weekly check ins for help.

 

All calls will be recorded and sent to your email that you sign up with.

You will get access for life to the program and any additional trainings I add in. 

As an alumni you will also get discounts on my other courses as well as first place in line to join them.

 

For more info click here https://level-up-babe.mykajabi.com/building-beliefs-that-serve-.