Lead with the Enneagram with Host Tracy O’Malley
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149: The Enneagram and Grief: Here’s how to show up for (yourself) and everyone that’s grieving in your life
2021-05-25
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I’m fresh off a celebration of life for a very dear friend of mine for 20 years.
I felt compelled while it was still fresh on my heart to share.
Listen now
I’ve learned a lot about myself this week.
Real vulnerability is showing up when you don’t know what it’s going to look like. And as I record this, I have zero notes in front of me.
In death, in grief, I’ve learned a lot about how I show up for myself and others.
This episode is for those of you who are intrigued by the Enneagram and want to know what it can really do for you.
I can’t imagine how I might have shown up had I not used the Enneagram in these last two weeks.
The Enneagram helped me with self-awareness and awareness of others. Therefore, I thought I could share this life lesson with you, my dear listeners.
When we love, lead, and care about others, we need to show up for other people the way they need us to show up—especially when they’re grieving.
Quotes:
0.56
Real vulnerability is showing up when you don’t know what it’s going to look like.
2:21
This is way more than about the Enneagram is how we use it to spread love.
10:12
It is to your advantage to learn what we can, using the wisdom of the Enneagram that we can grieve in ways that are life giving.
12:49
When I’m grieving, especially in the most healthy way that I am right now, there’s some things that I don’t like learning about myself.
14:39
If you don’t step into your own awareness in the most healthy version of yourself, then it’s possible to carry on grieving for the rest of your life.
15:45
Grieving does heal you and grows you if you allow it to.
19:28
You can’t fix grief, you just have to go through it.
21:34
Type 3’s move into their unhealthier 9 when they stress and grieve.
24:13
The 5’s in grief and loss want to have clarity before making decisions and they want to avoid the excess emotions.
28:07
A 7 moves into an unhealthy 1 under extreme stress.
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I felt compelled while it was still fresh on my heart to share.
Listen now
I’ve learned a lot about myself this week.
Real vulnerability is showing up when you don’t know what it’s going to look like. And as I record this, I have zero notes in front of me.
In death, in grief, I’ve learned a lot about how I show up for myself and others.
This episode is for those of you who are intrigued by the Enneagram and want to know what it can really do for you.
I can’t imagine how I might have shown up had I not used the Enneagram in these last two weeks.
The Enneagram helped me with self-awareness and awareness of others. Therefore, I thought I could share this life lesson with you, my dear listeners.
When we love, lead, and care about others, we need to show up for other people the way they need us to show up—especially when they’re grieving.
Quotes:
0.56
Real vulnerability is showing up when you don’t know what it’s going to look like.
2:21
This is way more than about the Enneagram is how we use it to spread love.
10:12
It is to your advantage to learn what we can, using the wisdom of the Enneagram that we can grieve in ways that are life giving.
12:49
When I’m grieving, especially in the most healthy way that I am right now, there’s some things that I don’t like learning about myself.
14:39
If you don’t step into your own awareness in the most healthy version of yourself, then it’s possible to carry on grieving for the rest of your life.
15:45
Grieving does heal you and grows you if you allow it to.
19:28
You can’t fix grief, you just have to go through it.
21:34
Type 3’s move into their unhealthier 9 when they stress and grieve.
24:13
The 5’s in grief and loss want to have clarity before making decisions and they want to avoid the excess emotions.
28:07
A 7 moves into an unhealthy 1 under extreme stress.
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