S1E15 - Why I Don't Have Friends? A Deep Discovery Into Relationships, Environment and Mindset - Journey Free Podcast

In this episode, we speak about how everyone is not meant to come with you and the people who you think are your friends may be moved out of your life so that you can go to your next chapter. Friend groups can often be a comfort zone for us and ultimately stunt our growth. Sometimes we put being accepted by others on a pedestal which may cause us to be mutable, people please and neglect truly getting to know ourselves. The reason I don't have friends, right now, is because I make people go deep within themselves. Alot of people don't want to go deep within themselves so they avoid people like me. I am "beyond" my age group, in a sense, and alot of people are not ready for what it takes to be my friend. My reality has shown me that people are interested in the idea of being my friend but no one is genuinely ready or prepared for what it takes to be my friend. This time in my life has created alot of alone time for me. I do believe that my current environment stifles my growth, limits me and I do not challenge myself when in this space. I question, "why is it so hard to make friends as an adult?" Sometimes growth requires new company, new locations, new mindsets. Maybe my growth in my current environment is not in relation to other people, maybe that growth is in relation to myself. The growth is from within. I spark my own evolutionary process. Now is my time to step into my own power within and use that power for my own greatest good. I do not have space for the collective at this time. Real true dark worker energy comes from doing ones own life/own experience, helping oneself get to greater and ones highest good. Sometimes people are in our life on assignment. Get rid of energy vampires who make you only choose them, monopolize your time, and drain you. Quit holding on to people because of history. Find the courage within yourself to let go of people who are not conducive/beneficial to your next chapter in life. If we can let go of these attachments, we will then be able to better become aware of our own beingness, conscious awareness of self and security in self. There is nothing outside of ourselves that is more important to us than us. There is no one outside of you that can get you to your next chapter. You have to go for yourself. Fear of the unknown tends to weigh heavy on you and bring anxiety in your life. We have to find empathy and compassion for ourselves. The very things we hope for our friends and loved ones, we need to give that also to ourselves. Give yourself space to make mistakes. Don't take life so seriously. Be cool with not having it all figured out. As long as you are fulfilling your soul mission and life purpose then you are okay! Embrace your reality and continue to do the work.

Uneak Tershai, a multi-dimensional one, who loves to talk openly about life experiences, inspires others to embrace their differences and encourages them to love themselves for the uniqueness that they are.

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