Episode 25: Healing trauma in the Nervous System so we can receive more Love, Money and Pleasure

Why do we sabotage good things (relationships, money, love etc.) when we have them? 

 

Why do we suddenly act crazy when we finally attract that amazing partner, we’ve been waiting for all these years?

Why do we sometimes choose the abusive partner over the sweet generous partner?

Why do we get rid of money as soon as we have it? 

Why do we blow through our budget even when we’ve made a decision to do better and have every intention to do so?

 

Why is it that some people can manifest more money and thrive, whilst others are destroyed by having more money?

My guest for the #MoneyMagic series this week is Marilu Gabba, one of my friends and also my relationship coach. Marilu is a trauma-informed Sex, Love and Relationship coach, so you already know this is going to be a juicy interview.

 

I invited her onto this show because I wanted to talk about receiving and how trauma can stop and/or sabotage us from receiving and holding onto the money, love and pleasure we want and desire.

It’s possible to ask for money, great love and pleasure and all that good stuff, and have the universe give us all these things, but not be able to hold these things and to actually be destroyed by these things.

Why does this happen?

 

Because receiving more than we are used to receiving can feel unsafe to our nervous systems and can overwhelm our system.

 

We all have a receiving setpoint (or what Gay Hendricks calls an upper limit) - where we learned from a very young age that there’s only so much money, love, pleasure etc. we can handle and when we go beyond this set point, our nervous systems register danger and go into survival mode.

 

Our set points are linked to trauma and understanding this link is key to help us start healing and creating the life we want, this is what we will be discussing today.

 

This is another life-changing episode - grab your cup of tea and your journal and dig in, you are in for a treat.

 

If this resonated with you and you are done working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course.

Click here to register/ sign up for the wait list for the Money Magic Course.

 

You can also download the free eBook here:  weathy-money.com/workbook