Episode 32: How sexual & financial boundaries intersect & impact our financial expansion

In this week’s episode, I talk to Casey Blake a registered counsellor, expert on sexuality, trauma, gender, parenting, and relationships.

Casey joined the #MoneyMagic course in 2017 after meeting me in person at a workshop presentation.

In this podcast episode, Casey explains to us how money impacts our ability to access different products and services and also takes us into the realm of sex and sex education.

She shares her insights on sex and sexual trauma and how boundary violations can affect our sense of safety and how that can also impact and affect our finances and our ability to set financial boundaries and how that can also impact our decisions around visibility (it’s mindblowing).

She shares how she used to have a very interesting relationship with money - where she was middle class but never really made any money because other people were paying for her lifestyle.

She explains how she was able to start contributing more financially in her relationship, how she was able to build a thriving practice and start saving more.

I hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did recording it.

Click play and leave me a comment in the comments section below.

 

Timestamps:

[2:04] Intro to Casey Blake

[6:55] Teaching parents to talk about sex with their children

[11:36] Teenagers can't trust in their bodies?

[14:47] Let's talk about consent

[19:04] Separating pleasure and sex.

[21:02] Learning to set boundaries

[28:32] How would you describe money to an alien?

[30:13] The money and excess

[32:46] What would you have liked to know when you started your money journey?

[34:09] The importance of sleep and rest

[38:43] The poverty generated by the system

[41:30] How can the system be improved?

[46:15] How did you feel emotionally before starting the Magic Money course, and how did it change?

 

Contact Casey:

Counselling:

Website: https://whatnowcounselling.co.za

Email: casey@whatnowcounselling.co.za

 

Sex Education course: https://toolsforhavingthetalks.co.za/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toolsforhavingthetalks/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ToolsforHavingTheTalks

Facebook  group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/857495814353422 

 

If you enjoyed the podcast and were inspired by Casey’s story and how she has changed her relationship with money, then I want to invite you to check out and register for the #MoneyMagic course. 

The magic is in the healing. 

 

In this course, I help women of colour create a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 or more per month with ease. You can enrol or get on the waiting list for the course at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic