Episode 38: Let’s talk about money as a lover...

In this week’s #MoneyMagic podcast, I talk to Boitumelo (Tumi) Mofokeng to discuss how her relationship with money has changed since taking the Money Magic course. Tumi is a mother of two, with her most recent child being born in 2020, and on top of that, she is a rental property owner.

Before taking the course, Tumi's relationship with money was that of a distant lover, it would come, and just as quickly it would go. 

She felt as if she constantly had to fight and prove that she deserved to have money while simultaneously focusing on just one aspect of money.

Tumi admits to only accepting money as a tangible item you work for, she would always be on the hunt for different and/or better jobs, but in the end, these jobs would result in the same pay with more responsibility. 

Moreover, Tumi shares her anxiety whenever people ask her for money because it felt reminiscent of when her parents would lend their money only to be rewarded with betrayal and ungratefulness.

She shares the emotional shift she felt when she finally decided to love herself by setting boundaries and saying no. 

She reinforced her love by sticking to those boundaries and choosing to respect herself. Tumi is no longer afraid of people rejecting her for saying no to lending money and admits that it now comes with ease, and as a result, money no longer feels like a distant lover - it now feels like close family.

 If money was a lover, how would your relationship look like?

 

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Timestamps:

[02:55] Introduction to Tumi

[03:59] Background on Tumi 

[04:44] What does money mean to you? 

[06:23] Money story 

[09:33] What do you wish you knew before starting your money journey? 

[11:33] Expectations of the course 

[15:38] People asking for money 

[20:07] Setting boundaries and saying no 

[27:17] Sacrificing in order to help       

[30:31] How has your definition of trauma changed since doing the course? 

[35:19] Changing as you begin to heal 

[36:19] The emotional shift since starting the course 

[37:49] Shifts seen in income 

[46:26] God Wound meditation 

[48:14] Finding time to do the work in a busy schedule 

[52:00] Letting your subconscious heal 

[53:24] Live classes for Money Magic 

[56:48] Connect with Tumi

 

The magic is in the healing. 

If you’re ready to fully step into your power and start creating magic by tapping into your ancestral wisdom, then I invite you to register for the #MoneyMagic course. In this course, I help women of colour create a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 or more per month with ease. You can enrol or get on the waiting list for the course at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic