Steps To Healing From Emotional Hurt

What do you do when your head and your heart don't agree, besides hurting a lot?  A young woman who is a Christian, unhappily married and wanting to find the right person and marry, meets a man, usually married and a few years older than she, and he begins to give her attention.  He makes her feel important and tells her how turned on he is by her, that she is exactly what he has been looking for all his life.