Do Intersex People Get to Decide What Gender They Are?

Questions about whether intersex people get to decide what gender they are and whether or not that indicates gender is a matter of identity rather than biology and whether physical damage to our bodies could prevent us from experiencing a “sense of God.” 

• Do intersex people get to decide what gender they are, and if so, does that indicate gender is a matter of identity and not biology?
• Since our spirits and bodies affect each other, could physical damage to our bodies prevent us from experiencing a “sense of God”?