Episode 37 The Misconception of Healing from Abuse and how the Queen can EMPOWER you

Misconception

/ˌmɪskənˈsɛpʃn/

noun

a view or opinion that is incorrect because based on faulty thinking or understanding.

Let me be clear moving on is hard.

Emotional abuse is horrific.

WHEN YOU GET TRIGGERED, IT IS A MESSAGE FROM YOUR BODY. ONLY YOU WILL KNOW THE ANSWER.

They eroded every boundary you set.

Recovering from this takes dedication and a will.

It is a misconception that burning photos or deleting their number is all you need to do to move on.

It is a misconception that just moving on is all you need to do to get over them.

It is a misconception that telling the abuser who they are is all you need to do to get closure.

YOU MIGHT HAVE REALISED YOU ARE NOT GOING TO GET AN APOLOGY.

YOU MIGHT HAVE REALISED YOU ARE NOT GOING TO GET CLOSURE.

YOU MIGHT HAVE REALISED THE PAIN ISN’T JUST GOING TO GO AWAY.

I see comments in mine and other groups which say move on, which is not helpful. By ignoring glossing over the pain, you are just putting a bandaid over a wound. These wounds run deep into your soul.

You don’t just move on from these relationships. Comments like "close the door in their face" or "burn their stuff", will not help you heal on the level you need to.

NOT EVERYONE HAS THIS OPPORTUNITY. 

AND FOR THE ONES THAT DO GET IT, THERE WILL ONLY BE A FEW BRAVE ENOUGH TO TAKE IT.

Your body is talking to you, please listen.

Your body knows where the wound is, and it wants you to know on a conscious level which is why it nudges you. Your body wants to heal on a deeper level.

After everything you have been through, you deserve peace!

Divorcing Emotionally means they can no longer hurt you.

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GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8

BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8