Ep 109. Kindness and Other Kinks

This weeks guest is Jon a/k/a HiThereCatsuit the host of What Women* (*and other wonderful humans) Want podcast. After being a guest on his show last year, I absolutely had to invite him on to mine 

 

His perspective on kindness as it relates to the kink world is something I really wanted to highlight. It's simple yet so powerful!

 

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Jon a/k/a HiThereCatsuit has been hosting the What Women* (*and other wonderful humans) Want podcast since October of 2020 with over 150 episodes. The show was just named the “Official Podcast of FetishCon” An avid writer and contributor on FetLife, Jon wrote a column about men and their unsolicited dick pics. The response led him to brainstorm with NookieNotes of Dating Kinky to create the podcast. 

 

As Jon, the host has an award winning background in broadcasting going back more than 35 years and has appeared as a talent on national networks as well as regional and local stations. He has 7 Emmy Awards for his work behind the scenes, and also designs all the graphic elements for the show’s social media. In addition, he has been a public speaker and has even presented a TEDx talk about how people treat each other. 

In the scene, HiThereCatsuit is a bottom who is known for their trademark spandex suits which led to his name, as so many people just said “HiThereCatsuit” when they would walk into a party. They are also known for his notebooks which they share with people they connect with to keep inventory of small victories. They are active in the Cincinnati area and have taught at Kinky Kollege Spring Break 2022, Coastal Carolina Fetish Fair 2022 and for TES-NYC in their TESTuesday online series, and the Owl’s Nest Online Education Fundraiser. They are a regular host and presenter with Dating Kinky as well and appears on all of their big weekend events.

 

Background:

Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.

 

Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.

 

Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.