What is friendship?

As you will hear each of the panelists say, this question seems straightforward when you first read it. But…

 

When I posed it to Chat GPT it said this:

“Friendship is a relationship between two or more individuals that is characterized by mutual affection, trust, and support. It is a bond that can form between people who share common interests, experiences, or activities, and can also involve shared beliefs and values. Friendships can be a source of emotional support and companionship, and can also provide opportunities for personal growth and learning.”

 

It is SO much more nuanced than that in reality.

 

Brandon Mahoney said he doesn’t think he could write a definition for friendship because it would be constantly expanding. More things would have to be added in and explained.

 

At first glance Camille Diaz thought it might be easy to say a friend is someone who gets you and always has your back. But then you also want someone who is going to give it to you straight maybe give you the love news you need to hear.

 

Kevin Wash shared that he had a friend who he had lost touch with for 35ish years. They have reconnected since Covid and now talk every Saturday.

 

There are some people who are friends because your lives are on a similar path now and there are friends who you will be able to call and enjoy them no matter how long it has been.

 

In the course of this conversation, I realized that there is something about friendship that is reciprocal. I am 100% available and that person for my clients. But I don’t go to them with my stuff. That is what makes it a client relationship.

 

Similarly, you’ve heard me say on Quick Hits before, if a “friend” calls me with their stuff but isn’t there for me for my stuff, that’s not a friend. That’s an unintended pro bono client.

 

What is friendship to you? Where is the line?

 

Connect with the panelists:

Kevin Wash: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-wash-23b90915/

Coach, mentor, author, trainer, and speaker running a consultancy business specializing in sales for international property development. Based in Spain

 

Brandon Mahoney: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brandoncmahoney/

Co Founder of Launch Point Labs, National venture firm where he is the expert in creating sales departments.

 

Camille Diaz: https://www.linkedin.com/in/camillediaz/

She is an Optimization Coach. creating custom systems and processes you’ll love so you can do it, stick to it, and get lasting results.

 

Dr Robyn Odegaard: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robynodegaard/

Concierge High Performance Psychologist providing luxury level support to executives, entrepreneurs, celebrities, dignitaries and athletes as well as the Facilitator of the Quick Hits podcast

 

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