E 136-I’m STILL the problem-10 Ways We are Getting in Our Own Way and Making Us Stay Stuck

Wow did I get some feedback and support from my last podcast. I guess I”m not the only one who gets in my own way (“Who knew”- she says tongue in cheek). So often, we stop ourselves from getting what we want or even doing what we know we should be doing. Do you know why? Me too! I’d love to know- just kidding, I do know. It’s because of a basic need we have to be comfortable. We sit in the comfortable fear or sit uncomfortably comfortable feeling guilty about our choices (hello Netflix rather than reading a book), or we tell ourselves we don’t have time (again netflix or youtube shorts!). 

 

As you listen to the rest of these “things” these excuses we are using to get in the way. I use to call them reasons and could justify each one- until I realized that was one of the ways I was getting in my own way too…there is a bonus for you 😆. As you listen, identify the ways these have been used in your life. Which ones have been your go to blockers? Do you have a favorite? And then I want you to ask yourself what becomes possible when you stop allowing that ONE way from blocking you. What if you used it as an indicator that something is on the horizon and you should act rather than giving in and allowing yourself to feel the guilt. 

 

So dive in and then do your homework!!! Don’t wait…if you do wait then ask yourself- am i getting in my own way AGAIN and go back and listen to the episode again and identify which tactic you are using  🤪

 

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