This Is Happening For You

Have you ever been going through it and someone says "this is happening for you, not to you" and at that moment you could have pulled all your hair out but looking back you can see that it really was, even if it sucked. Unwanted advice can sting at times and other times it can block you from seeing the truth of a situation and really processing it. So many people get caught up in being the fixer when really all that's needed is a listener.