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Have you ever considered that your image ofย what it means to beย a 'good girl' and a 'good person' stands in the way of your dreams?
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Please don't get me wrong.
There is nothing wrong with being kind and generous.
There is nothing wrong with being there for others.
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Here is the caveat, though.
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Have you ever asked yourself if you are doing this because you genuinely want to do it?
Or are you doing this because you think you should?
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There is nothing wrong with staying late in the office when askedย to do so.
There is nothing wrong with a mother placing the child's desires above yours.
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And the caveat is:
Unless you chronically deny your wishes and desires.
Unless you want to say no but feel like you can't.
Unless you don't want to upset others.
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Why would you deny your wishes and desires?
Do you FEAR to be seen as selfish?
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I want to consider that when we do that repeatedly, this can lead to anger and resentment.ย
That is where we often take our frustration on the most vulnerable and least empowered people in our circle.
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Consider that what you are saying to the winder consciousness is that your desires and needs are not as important as other people's.
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I don't know about you, but Iย am doneย saying NO to myself.
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Tune into this week's episode to find out whatย can youย do to start reclaimingย yourself and your needs.
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