30: What Is Love? If Love Was A Radio Station, What Frequency Are You Tuned Into?
If love was a radio station, what frequency are you tuned into?
What is love to you? A feeling? A behaviour? An action? Words of "I love you"? An attachment style?
Today we spoke about love as an essence, a frequency that has a particular vibration that looks, feels and acts differently at each station. Often the words of love are thrown around easily or acts of love might be shown, but we just don't feel it, receive it or know it. It's like someone showing us their "proof", but the essence of love is missing.
We went into how words of "I love you" and actions are complementary at some radio stations, but conditional on others and how we can use this to attune to ourselves more deeply to then attune to others more connectedly at that radio station.
If someone is tuned to the frequency of love at another radio station and tried to tune into to a different station that isn't aligned, we get white noise. Communication, actions, words, behaviours all matter less in this situation and tend to cause divide. We might even say along the lines of "no one loves me" or we put "love" into a box and give up altogether. Yet love certainly doesn't fit into a box. Fears often hide in the darkness of a box, but love is more of an essence that penetrates anything and everything...it is what the vibrational frequency of authenticity is.
Attunement and emotional intelligence is key, otherwise we fall back into conditional love based on words and actions...or inactions! At this station, feelings come and go. Words feel like a never ending loop of miscommunication and actions are like small dopamine hits like breadcrumb displays of love.
We all attune to love differently, based on our past, childhoods, parental relationship dynamics, flow of romantic relationships throughout life, subconscious programming, traumas and life journey experiences. The gift each of these experiences gives us is to keep opening the door to our hearts. Keep opening to attunement within ourselves.
The radio station dial to the love frequency we choose is in our heart. Not on the outside of us, although we often go seeking on the outside.
We can keep moving forward on our path with a dial that we can tune into love if we choose ourselves. No matter what we face. When love pours out from within, our experiences expand us, so we might question..."Do I love me more when I am with you" or "I love me more for these experiences I have been through". Try not to look at the details or questions on the outside "I wonder what they think of me", or "I am waiting to know if THEY want this relationship to continue". That's the gift to attune back into your heart and decide for YOU what you want!
There are infinite radio stations of love and we align with others based on this essence. That frequency drives the external world such as words, communication, connection, intimacy, actions, behaviours and consistency over time. Energy is always moving and changing, so if we attune to our hearts, our own divine expansive love, then we can trust that what shows up for us in our life journey is helping us to further expand in love. Holding that knowing in the rough and bumpy times isn't easy, but those Eat, Love Pray stories show us how life always works out for the best of us despite these tough times.
What radio station of love are you tune into? Do you love yourself more at this station?
Stay soft, stay gentle, stay kind.
With an open and grateful heart,
Melissa
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