MindShifters Radio Podcast - dr michael ryce & Dr Tim Hayes
Education:Self-Improvement
Caller Dusty just got a call from his former girlfriend who ran the local shelter for battered women for 10 years. Hasn't called her back yet but interesting to see if the intention and thought processes is what drew her in. It's happened a lot. Universe connects us in the heart. The message to contact someone when you think of them.
Referring to yesterday's conversation. At HeartLand, a lady was processing her father sexually abusing her and a man in the intensive owned up to abusing his own daughter. They sat in front of each other and both went into a deep process of healing. His abuse as a kid was the promoter for his unconscious drive to abuse. Not an excuse, there still needs to be accountability. Opportunity to grow if capable and willing.
No human being has ever abused another. Y'Shua said "in order to live you have to die" the non-being has to die for the human being to live. When human life shows up there is no abuse. Whatever is done comes from non-being. Dissolution of non-being trauma happens when it comes up and love is present. Need transformation not sensation or satisfaction.
Dusty had a song, "leaves can show the way to grow but first they have to let go."
Dusty shared an experience of abuse himself, not sexual, and he was meditating when he smelled an aroma of 'sage brush' and it triggered his internal process. The 'old factory sense' was driving him. Then he went to the group mentioned yesterday. The memories were so dim he thought 'did I make this up?' She told him to go with 'they are real' and he did months of therapy on that. Can't go into cognitive process when the 'old stuff' is up and running. Hostility and rage come forth to anesthetize the pain. No kid wants to believe it is true. When the memories come up that is the time to look at it. Need someone to listen from the heart.
Does not require reconciliation with the abuser. The process is within. Tendency to go toward hate but you are then destroying yourself. Jeanie shared, it took years of this work to get to the point where I think I can see my abuser on the street without thinking of hate or even murder. Does not mean I pardon him for what he did but I have faced the emotions in me and done my forgiveness work. I am not done, obviously, crying yesterday as I read the lyrics to that song 'Warrior'.
Question from email: "If one is a little child, and are surrounded by trauma and abuse, and they grow up with those traumas. How can one overcome it? For example, as adults we have these Aramaic forgiveness tools, and can use them knowing what's going on is about me, resonance, etc. But as kids, we could be abused, traumatized, etc, and aren't aware of these tools. So many "collect" these and grow up with them. How does one heal these things if the child had no choice but to put up with it? They can't leave or go anywhere." Get the tools to the child and support them quickly if you can. And each person who does the work around their experience energetically opens the space for anyone with the same issues.
Example of someone with the right tools, repairs a stuck door, then anyone can open the door. Frequencies on different levels may be transparent but they are still there. Nothing can stop a thought sent out. When enough people send love we will hit critical mass - a little leavening leavens the whole loaf. And everyone who is willing to listen will get it.
Dusty added consciousness trumps politics. This show helps that consciousness.
Caller Michael T. so nothing is dense enough to stop the high energy wave of thought? Collective thoughts are in the ether? A thought in the mind creates a wave (like a pebble thrown into a pond creates a wave that goes on). We are one, not separate. That energy is part of the law of resonance, we will draw someone in to show us what we need to deal with and heal. Life always responds to the call. The Creator said ask and receive.
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