What if "not conforming to the pattern of this world" wasn't only about avoiding sin but serving others? Once you put yourself last it transforms how you see the world. It transforms what we do. When you are at your closest moment with Jesus, see what He is challenging and calling you to do. Stop listening to yourself and start listening to what God is telling you. How do you show people you love them? Serve them.
Re-Gifted - Romans 12:1-8