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Prov. 6:
23 For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching is light;
And reproofs for discipline are the way of life
24
To keep you from the evil woman,
From the smooth tongue of the adulteress.
25
Do not desire her beauty in your heart,
Nor let her capture you with her eyelids.
26
For on account of a harlot one is reduced to a loaf of bread,
And an adulteress hunts for the precious life.
27
Can a man take fire in his bosom
And his clothes not be burned?
28
Or can a man walk on hot coals
And his feet not be scorched?
29
So is the one who goes in to his neighbor’s wife;
Whoever touches her will not go unpunished.
30
Men do not despise a thief if he steals
To satisfy himself when he is hungry;
31
But when he is found, he must repay sevenfold;
He must give all the substance of his house.
32
The one who commits adultery with a woman is lacking sense;
He who would destroy himself does it.
33
Wounds and disgrace he will find,
And his reproach will not be blotted out.
34
For jealousy enrages a man,
And he will not spare in the day of vengeance.
35
He will not accept any ransom,
Nor will he be satisfied though you give many gifts.
Women today more then ever are being the pursuers of men in sexual relationships.
Affairs, adultery, sex outside of marriage etc… are becoming a way of life for women. There are many thoughts and guesses on why this is… some say women are now doing this to feel empowered. Some say the rise in women watching pornography, and some say it is just the slow acceptance that men had is now accepted for women… the playing field is now “even”. And of course the rise of women having sex at earlier and earlier ages adds to this problem.
I know first hand - any given week I will have women point blank hit on me and it’s not subtle.
When I owned my gym it was a regular occurrence… and yes they knew I loved Jesus and was a pastor… didn’t matter.
THE WAR IS REAL.
Here are my thoughts.
*Everyone is a target… You don’t want to be a target. Don’t fall into the lie that its flattering to get hit on. There is something wrong with that women inside that she feels like she needs you to fulfill her. SHE NEEDS JESUS.
*Don’t be THAT GUY. Look, there are times when I run away from temptation simply because I don’t want to be that guy. The guy like my other friends who threw away their marriage, ministry, family etc… Ask yourself- do you really want to be that guy?
*You will NEVER get rid of that stigma of being an adulterer.
v. 33 you will be taunted forever by your own mind, satan and by others opinions. Does God forgive? YES… but remember it’s like walking on hot coals… You may be forgiven but you will always wear those scars. You will always walk differently.
*If you lose everything from an affair- God warned you right here it can happen. Don’t get mad at God for your stupidity. Is a few seconds in bed worth the pain?
*If a woman’s husband or the father of a young lady comes after you for having sex with them… you better understand that God knows the heart of Jealousy and rage in a mans heart who has been cheated on. He will not spare his rage and anger… I am not saying God condones it, but he is warning you- it will get ugly.
***I walked outside to where my wife was standing talking to my neighbor. She had a bikini top on and shorts watching our kids when they were young. I saw from the window he was talking to her only so he could look at her cleavage… yeah, us guys know this stuff. So I walked out there and told him to quit looking at my wives chest… he laughed it off and my wife was so mad she was winded. BUT MAKE NO MISTAKE… I AM A JEALOUS HUSBAND… AND YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED.
*The penalty back in Christ day for adultery was for the man and woman to be stoned… I say this only to warn all of us men that as much as I am jealous of another man making the moves on my wife… I better be just as upset when my mind takes me there with another woman. If I allow lust in my heart and mind… I am no better than the guy I want to throw stones at.
When Joseph was pursued by Potiphars wife… he said “I can’t do this, its against the 10 commandments”. NO they were not even around yet. What he said was “I can’t do this to my master/my friend and I can’t do this to my God”.
He had such a respect for this man that he could not allow himself to be “that guy” in the eye of Potiphar. And he LOVED God so much he could not even allow the thought of tarnishing his walk with God to even enter his mind.
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