SEX, INTIMACY, SENSUALITY, EROTIC DESIRE - Dana Miquelle - 2010.07.17 - Show #491
7.17.2010 - Dana Miquelle
Track 1:
Introductions
Are we sexy beings?
What's the nature of healthy sexual behavior in longterm relationships (major topic of the day)
It's not just physical, but also mind & spirit
Old Notion: that there is a biological drive to sexuality of course there is. But there is so much more as it is essential to relationships.
Politics of gender
Songs today are more about sex outside relationships
Dana wants to talk more about sex inside.
Sex is symbolic in relationship
Start Track 2: 21:18
Track 2:
How we think about sex and sexuality
Spelling out unhealthy sexuality
Sexuality are individualized
Jacobus remembers "courting"
Start Track 3: 39:29
Track 3:
Talk about difference in conflict between intimacy and desire
maybe not as compatible as people think
Intimacy is closeness, dependeness
Eroticism is separateness, independence
We need to go through both to bring out the best of us
We need to go grow-up in the relationship - grow up as human beings - ALWAYS
Creating Erotic Space:
Story about "the missing piece" about 2 circles
Start Track 4: 59:13
Track 4:
Take into consideration why LOW DESIRE
Start Track 5: 1:17:20
Track 5:
How do people think about intimacy and desire.
The best way to improve is to work on themselves on individuals, FIRST
"Feelings" is only the beginning of the work
Tension between wanting closeness & expressing erotic desire
Attachment needs autonomy
Fusion is without separateness
Losing weight will improve sex
Start Track 6: 1:37:02
Track 6:
Call about book titles
"You Make Me Feel..."
Confucius
Sexual Boredom: spicing-up life
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