June 16, 2013: Confession – Michael Hidalgo

Confession is to say what is true about you. It is saying, “I lied.” “I cheated.” It is saying, “I believe in God the Father, maker of heaven and earth.” That’s what confession is. So why in the world is it so hard to confess anything? Why is it so hard to talk about what is true about you?

 

Maybe it’s because we really know what’s inside - we really know what we think, feel, did, or said - and we can’t talk about it because we don’t want anyone to know. We don’t want anyone to know because of what they might think of us, do to us, or say about us when we are around. And we know what they might think, do or say because we have seen what happens to other people when they confess. They become the object of scorn. 

So we bury it. But the truth is still in there. So we live in captivity to lies. The reality is the truth needs to be stated fully and clearly if we are ever to move forward in our lives and toward deeper intimacy with God and others. If this is the case, then truth (which includes confession) should always be celebrated – even if the truth brings pain.