Has anyone ever said to you, "You should be ashamed of yourself!" If so, did it help you identify and change an unwanted behavior? Or did it just make you feel guilty and defeated? Jay Stringer, author of the incredible book, Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing, shares with us a new approach to the conversation around sexual brokenness. Traditionally most approaches to unwanted sexual behavior are about suppressing desire or removing the shame associated with your choices. But neither of these truly lead to freedom. Jay offers a third approach, based on years of research, which shows that unwanted sexual behaviors are not random. These behaviors were both shaped and predicted by the parts of our story that remain unaddressed. The implication is that if you want to find freedom, you need to identify the unique reasons that bring you to it in the first place. Instead of trying to escape shame, let's look right at it and let it teach us. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.