Roy was married 25 years with 5 kids. And they had a good marriage.
They love the Lord and seek to serve Him with all.
Intimacy was tough though.
And every time he brought it up, she would get defensive, or feel like she wasn't good enough, or like he'll never be satisfied.
Anyone else feel that way?
He had heard about Masculinity Reclaimed for a couple of years and finally decided it was time.
He kept hitting a wall.
And if you're in that place, I want you to know...
It's legitimate that issues around intimacy hurt.
They hurt deeply.
But Roy got to a place where trying to change her wasn't working.
And so, he decided it was time to look at himself.
He knew going into the program if he let his wife know, in the beginning, she would put many, many more walls up...
So, he decided to go forward without her knowing. Because, as he said, this was a coaching program FOR HIM.
He had to talk to someone.
It was either therapy or a coaching program.
(And he said she doesn't really like therapy either).
Anyway... that's where things started.
But, in 12 weeks, God did something amazing.
If you're a man looking/grasping for hope and/or you want the tools for changing your marriage, I invite you to listen.
If you're a woman who will listen with a curious heart to find out how men really feel about intimacy, I invite you to listen.
Love & Blessings,
Belah
PS - Would you like to work on your side of your marriage? I invite you to sign up for a free Clarity Call here at delightyourmarriage.com/cc.
PPS - How healthy is your marriage, really? Take the free Marital Health Assessment here! delightyourmarriage.com/health
Quote from a Masculinity Reclaimed Graduate:
"I've learned so much, your course helped me figure out so many things I've been struggling with in my life and I've really been able to make sense of pain and emotions that I haven't figured out until now.
There are many more great things that have come from doing your course!"
272-If You're Considering Divorce: A 5-Part Roadmap to Healing
271-Use Challenge To Change Your Marital Culture
270-She Felt Pushed, But Now She's Thrilled. Interview with Diana
269-What Seduction Means. Interview with My Husband, Part 2
268-What Seduction Means. Interview with My Husband, Part 1
267-Why Seduction Matters
000-Start Here: An Introduction to Delight Your Marriage
266-Thankfulness During Political (or Marital) Upheaval
265-Abuse then Foster Care to Healing. Interview with Alexis & Justin Black
264-When to Share Hard Things With Your Spouse
263-Will My Wife Say No...Again?
262-Her Anxiety + His Masturbation Transformed to Frequent Intimacy! Interview with Captain
261-From Serial Infidelity to Marital P-A-S-S-I-O-N. Interview with Charles
260-Attract (Don't Push) Your Spouse Towards Jesus
259-How to Sabbath for Intimacy
258-Sexual Health & Medical Solutions for Age. Interview with Ben, Part 2
257-After 45 Years Married, Is Passion Possible? Interview with Ben, Part 1
256-How to Not Fail At Marriage
255-Coveting Affects Your Sex
254-Dealing with Disappointments
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