Roy was married 25 years with 5 kids. And they had a good marriage.
They love the Lord and seek to serve Him with all.
Intimacy was tough though.
And every time he brought it up, she would get defensive, or feel like she wasn't good enough, or like he'll never be satisfied.
Anyone else feel that way?
He had heard about Masculinity Reclaimed for a couple of years and finally decided it was time.
He kept hitting a wall.
And if you're in that place, I want you to know...
It's legitimate that issues around intimacy hurt.
They hurt deeply.
But Roy got to a place where trying to change her wasn't working.
And so, he decided it was time to look at himself.
He knew going into the program if he let his wife know, in the beginning, she would put many, many more walls up...
So, he decided to go forward without her knowing. Because, as he said, this was a coaching program FOR HIM.
He had to talk to someone.
It was either therapy or a coaching program.
(And he said she doesn't really like therapy either).
Anyway... that's where things started.
But, in 12 weeks, God did something amazing.
If you're a man looking/grasping for hope and/or you want the tools for changing your marriage, I invite you to listen.
If you're a woman who will listen with a curious heart to find out how men really feel about intimacy, I invite you to listen.
Love & Blessings,
Belah
PS - Would you like to work on your side of your marriage? I invite you to sign up for a free Clarity Call here at delightyourmarriage.com/cc.
PPS - How healthy is your marriage, really? Take the free Marital Health Assessment here! delightyourmarriage.com/health
Quote from a Masculinity Reclaimed Graduate:
"I've learned so much, your course helped me figure out so many things I've been struggling with in my life and I've really been able to make sense of pain and emotions that I haven't figured out until now.
There are many more great things that have come from doing your course!"
312-Why A Potholder Started WW3
311-What Does Intimacy Have to Do with the Gospel?
310-Rapid-Fire Intimacy Transformations, Part 2
309-When YOU Lead... Rapid-Fire Intimacy Transformations
Enrollment Opened! Here's what Masculinity Reclaimed is about
Just started: Men's Masterclass Oct 11, 12 & 13!
308-How to Get Her In the Mood (& Turn Her On)
307-He does not know it will cost him his life
306-"Resigned Myself to Misery" to "Happiest We've Ever Been." Nick's Transformation Story
305-Fear God and Remember to "Make Love"
304-No Desire Due to Abuse, But Now "I Just Want It So Bad!" Testimonials with Two Pastors
303-Communication Secrets - Part 2
302-Communication Secrets
301-Fear God and Forget the Toothpaste
300-Recognize God's Hand in Your Marriage...Or Else
299-Let the Sun Go Down On Your Argument
298-Respect An Untrustworthy Husband--or He May Never Change
297-Courage Is Required for Intimacy
296-My Husband's Reaction to the Miracles
295-Hollow & Cold to Joyful & Intimate (She Had No Inkling). Testimonial with Timothy R.
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