For the last few weeks, I had the experience of feeling like I was running in circles without a clear direction - endlessly researching but not sure what to do next. I told myself that I had gotten to the end of the road on my vision.
In reality, things weren’t that dire - I just forgot what phase I was in and how to keep myself anchored.
There are three phases to creating and living out your vision for the year:
Caterpillar: exploring and building systems to support bringing more of what you want into your life.
Cocoon: simplifying and building systems to support bringing more of what you want into your life.
Butterfly: Doing more of what you want in your everyday life.
The research phase is supposed to be a fun season of exploring. I had lost my way a bit, NOT because I was spending hours learning without creating, but because I had pushed out the daily practices that anchor me to God and creating my life with Him.
Once I put my morning routine where I connect with God at the top of my list, it brought joy back into the caterpillar phase for me.
I use my morning routine to create my life with God, so I can be anchored in whatever phase of life I’m in.
For me, this looks like starting by writing the thoughts of the last 24 hours in a lined journal (this is the one I use). Next, I pull out my Thriving in Motherhood Journal and answer the questions in there. I also spend time reading my scriptures and writing down verses that stand out to me and praying.
When I keep this routine in place, I feel directed in the things I am doing each day and have ideas and inspiration about where to spend my time and energy. I better understand HOW to do the things I feel I need to do. I gain clarity and see things with truth.
If you’ve found yourself feeling a bit lost lately, tune into this week’s episode, where I’m sharing more about why I was experiencing the feeling of spinning in circles and more about what to do about it.
Loosening the Grip of Anxiety with Annie Stoker [Episode 127]
Scripts to Help You Advocate For Yourself [Episode 126]
I am a Committed Mom with Mary Caplin [Episode 125]
So What Does Thriving Mean Anyway? [Episode 124]
Why (and how!) I Don't Stress About Homeschool [Episode 123]
Lessons Learned From the End of Pregnancy [Episode 122]
The Power of Actually Writing Down my Morning and Evening Routines [Episode 121]
Lower Your Expectations and Love it with Tiana Woodbury [Episode 120]
Getting Ready for Baby (or Any Other Life Change) [Episode 119]
Peace, Joy and Contentment: A Two Year Growth Journey and One Simple Change with Jeni Awerkamp [Episode 118]
Establishing and Living Our Family Values [Episode 117]
Making Yourself the Top Priority with Jessica Ralston [Episode 116]
The Three Pillars of Thriving [Episode 115]
Living Authentically as a Mother with Annette Pimentel [Episode 114]
How I Finally Learned to Clean My House! [Episode 113]
Deciding to do Things Differently with Hannah Rust [Episode 112]
The Importance of Taking Care of Ourselves First So We can Continue to Give with Britney Grover [Episode 111]
Two Year Celebration, What's Next for Thriving in Motherhood - and 3 Invitations for YOU! [Episode 110]
What I do When I Start to Lose It [Episode 109]
How We Strengthen our Marriage During Hard Times with Andrew Jackson [Episode 108]
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