For the last few weeks, I had the experience of feeling like I was running in circles without a clear direction - endlessly researching but not sure what to do next. I told myself that I had gotten to the end of the road on my vision.
In reality, things weren’t that dire - I just forgot what phase I was in and how to keep myself anchored.
There are three phases to creating and living out your vision for the year:
Caterpillar: exploring and building systems to support bringing more of what you want into your life.
Cocoon: simplifying and building systems to support bringing more of what you want into your life.
Butterfly: Doing more of what you want in your everyday life.
The research phase is supposed to be a fun season of exploring. I had lost my way a bit, NOT because I was spending hours learning without creating, but because I had pushed out the daily practices that anchor me to God and creating my life with Him.
Once I put my morning routine where I connect with God at the top of my list, it brought joy back into the caterpillar phase for me.
I use my morning routine to create my life with God, so I can be anchored in whatever phase of life I’m in.
For me, this looks like starting by writing the thoughts of the last 24 hours in a lined journal (this is the one I use). Next, I pull out my Thriving in Motherhood Journal and answer the questions in there. I also spend time reading my scriptures and writing down verses that stand out to me and praying.
When I keep this routine in place, I feel directed in the things I am doing each day and have ideas and inspiration about where to spend my time and energy. I better understand HOW to do the things I feel I need to do. I gain clarity and see things with truth.
If you’ve found yourself feeling a bit lost lately, tune into this week’s episode, where I’m sharing more about why I was experiencing the feeling of spinning in circles and more about what to do about it.
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How Getting Feedback From Your Kids Will Transform Your Family with Kimberly Amici [Episode 209]
8 Tips For When your Husband is Traveling [Episode 208]
Finding deeper Connection, Satisfaction and Love in your Marriage with Joslyn Hillam [Episode 207]
How To Approach Hard Days When You Are Totally Exhausted [Episode 206]
Two Simple Ways to Create an Atmosphere of Love in the Home [Episode 205]
The Power of Hymns in Everyday Life [Episode 204]
How I Started Being Able To Think Clearly Again [Episode 203]
The Unexpected Results of a 30 Technology Fast with Phoebe Cook [Episode 202]
How a Weekly and Daily Big 3 Fits into Motherhood [Episode 201]
Your Personal Path Out of Survival Mode with the New Free Quiz! [Episode 200]
How to Create Meaningful Connection with your Children with Mindy Van De Graaff [Episode 199]
3 Tools to Help You Heal From Challenging Seasons with Mindy Van De Graaff [Episode 198]
Surviving a Difficult Pregnancy with Young Children at Home [Episode 197]
YOUR Visions for 2022! [Episode 196]
What to do when a yearly vision is overwhelming [Episode 195]
Developing a Strong Sense of Self With Anna Crabb [Episode 194]
Only Good Comes From Your Personal Growth [Episode 193]
See the Good You've Created Right Now [Episode 192]
3 Zero Prep Meaningful Christmas Traditions You Can Do Now [Episode 191]
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