Not only do victims of covert narcissistic abuse not see the abuse, they often join the abuser in abusing themselves. It’s the perfect storm built by this abuser in your life. Their circular conversations, projection, blame shifting, guilt manipulating, and many other tactics leave you, the victim, in complete confusion.
You accept the projecting, blaming and guilting. You defend yourself but the circular conversations convince you that you are wrong. Ultimately, you decide that maybe you are the problem. You blame yourself. You make it all your fault. You do everything you can to fix it.
You hold yourself to unreasonable standards and expectations. While the covert narcissist in your life sits and watches.
You are brainwashed into hating yourself. You squash your own self-esteem without even realizing what is going on.
The self-abuse must stop! You do deserve the help and support! You are worthy of your own love and care.
I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse.
I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com
Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse
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Episode 1 - Reactive Abuse: The Physical and Outward Reactions of Victims
How to Save Our Kids During a Traumatic Divorce with a Narcissist
Signs of Abuse Inside the Victim of a Covert Narcissist
It’s About What the Victim Doesn’t See
Two Tools for Healing from Covert Narcissistic Abuse
Passive Aggressiveness and Gaslighting
I Lost Myself to a Covert Narcissist
How Does This Get Better?
Covert Narcissists See Their World Through a Filter of Anger
Two Things You Should Never Say to a Victim of Covert Narcissism
Guilt Manipulation: How a Covert Narcissist Uses Your Own Guilt Against You
What Really is a Covert Narcissist
Brinkmanship: The Crazy-Making Skills of a Covert Narcissist
A Grenade Inside a Tank
4 Hooks that Covert Narcissists Use to Rope You Back In Once Again
The Bone Dry Exhaustion of Life with a Covert Narcissist
Interview about covert narcissism
Just Hard to Relax - Living in a Courtroom with a Covert Narcissism
Q&A Session on Parenting with a Toxic Partner
Shouldn’t I just be grateful that it isn’t worse!?!
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